By Laura Kay (formerly Smith), Chief Firecracker, Pink Spark Systems
Ugh. Divorce. Have you been through one, My Dear? I hope not.
But, if you’re like a lot of us, you’ve been there ~ done that.
Me too. In fact, recently ~ like this year.
Believe me, one of my New Year’s resolutions was NOT divorce. Yet, here I sit. New name. New home. New everything.
If you happen to be traveling down a rough road right now, I thought I’d share a few of the activities that have brought me through the past few months ~ albeit, somewhat tattered ~ but still whole.
1. Just do ONE day at a time.
More often than I’d like to admit, I’ve found myself ANYWHERE but the present. Revisiting the past NEVER makes me feel good. Of course not. I know better but my mind would sometimes go there.
Then you’ve got the overwhelming fear of the future. Can I do this on my own? What if ~ what if ~ what if?