Saturday morning. Rainy, chilly, a great day to stay in bed. No such pleasure awaits me. I'm up and faced with the usual tasks - housework, cooking (yes, Virigina, sometimes I cook), shopping, and ... writing. I'd much rather lie back down and grab a good book. I have a dozen or so right by my bed; books I've been meaning to read, and books I've promised to read. Along with books I should read.

Let's keep this post short - the title, Are you CEO material? - is for a purpose. I'm participating in a CEO Fellows group locally. We're a small group of executives - which, in itself, is a relative term - after all, the sole proprietor is an executive, isn't she? Depsite being an employee of one.

So, this particular small group of executives, made up of folks from all walks of professional life, met at the Country Club of Rochester for our first full-day session of learning how to be a CEO. Our host, Bruce Peters, CEO(?) of PeerHQ, the question mark is for Bruce, if he stops by. I'm not sure he uses the title CEO. His website says, Co-founder. But...we're all co-founders, or founders, of our business. The question is: what else are we? If we're leaders...then, CEO or President is the standard recognition, right?

I'm not sure you can learn to be a CEO. You can earn an MBA and go on to become a CEO, but...it doesn't prepare you for the life choices you'll have to make. And, no amount of schooling can really prepare you for dealing with clients, customers, vendors, family, etc. etc. People being unpredictable, and all. Instead, it helps to figure out what your "personal core purpose" is...to give you some solid ground to stand on.

This fellows group is designed to help us ask the right questions, make informed choices, and learn enough about our "personal core purpose," to be able to deal with the trials and tribulations in front of us, as we grow our businesses. Or, not. Not everyone wants to grow his or her business. Some people are happy maintaining. Regardless.

The day was grueling, although all we did was sit. For the most part. Our presenter, at this session, was Pat Murray. He 'entertained' us with stories - all designed to show us something. Illustrate something. Get our gray matter humming. I admit that part of the time I wasn't listening. I was observing. Pat was more than just another great speaker and storyteller. He was down-to-earth and approachable, a word I'm using more and more, thanks to Scott Ginsberg.