Blogging can be a dangerous thing, when someone decides to attack you unfairly. I'm not the first to endure this kind of treatment and I won't be the last. I do have to ask, however - why me?
I'm not going to go into the details because I refuse to give the bully any more attention than he's already received, on my behalf. Here's the outline: I have a Print-on-demand publishing business. Anyone who's read more than a few posts here knows that. I am customer-centric, and my goal is to change the nature of publishing as we know it. NO ONE has ever become a client without knowing my business model, what I charge, and what I can and cannot do. EVERYONE who works with me knows my high standards and my work ethic. I DO NOT make millions on the back of unsuspecting writers desperate to be in print.
You would think I did all of those things if you listened to this bully who has spent the last week attacking me and my company. He shall remain nameless because -- he deserves to be nameless.
Here's the thing - the content posted in a collective blog I write for, that drove him to such a frenzy of accusation and name calling, was a series of truths I wanted to share with the world, about how POD works. About how MY POD company works. Not ALL POD companies. I did cite stats to show that self-publishing, using POD, is a respectable way to publish. I did say that bookstores like B&N won't stock our books...because we don't take returns (almost 40% of the books in the traditional publishing world become remainders - or returns). And, I did say authors have to participate in marketing, if they want to be successful.
The attack disputing everything I wrote was unfounded and mean. It was libelous and misleading. I was so taken aback at the anger, I did not know how to respond. But, a number of good friends, colleagues, and authors, responded for me. It was heartening to see the defense of my integrity - though this bully then proceeded to take each of them to task.
So, here we are, days later. He's been asked, by someone I do not know but who saw through his maliciousness and called him on it, why he chose to pick on the one person in the group who likely had (has) little resources to take him on, one on one. (It turns out his beef was with the site, as much as with me. But, I was his whipping girl.) Easier to pick on the woman, some said. Easier not to confront the men - who could cut him down to size.
Indeed. Easier to pick on the woman. Such is the way not only the blogosphere works, but often the way life works. There are no pictures and no links in this post - because I refuse to acknowledge him any longer. I am an honest business woman. Would that he could be an honest business man and admit that while he does not approve of my business model, he has no basis in calling me names and insisting I do not do the things I've said I do. (He maintains that if an author cannot be picked up by a 'real' publisher, then the author's writing must be crap; which shows that he isn't merely attacking POD, he's insulting all self-published authors.)
But, shouting is more his style. (No, he didn't cap everything he wrote, but he did bold the 'serious parts' and color them red, creating the angry vision of someone with veins protruding from his neck, dripping spittle from the corners of his mouth; all the while hiding behind big, black sunglasses...the way bullies do.)