Since I had answered the phone, I was at a loss to reply. Knowing she had been on her way to a local adoption agency...since her plans for the baby from China were stretching into more than 2 years of waiting...I could not fathom what she meant by, "I'm officially going on maternity leave." (forgot the 'official' in my first mention)

"What does that mean?" I said...a bit hesitantly. I mean - really - I had no idea what to expect. All sorts of things were flying around my head - none of them even close to the reality.

"We're on our way to pick up our baby," she told me.

And, that's what she did. This is not my story to tell...so I will not go on. I mention it here because this wonderful event was a surprise to all of us, but most of all to Karin and her husband Steve. They are the proud parents of a newborn baby boy - and going through all the excitement, sleepless nights, and work that having a newborn involves.

There are no words of joy that can describe this to others. But, those of us who value family above all else - understand. If those of you who would market to us can grasp this overwhelming sense of joy and awe - you are well on your way to reaching us. It's been said that if you really want to sell something use a baby or a puppy/kitten.

I cannot disagree with that. No one can.

Happy Mother's Day, a little early, Karin.