I Hear it said... a poem worth remembering
January 10, 2010
I cherish friendship. Sometimes, I neglect the wonderful friends who mean so much to me - including family members. I am sorry. It's never my intention to ignore or leave them feeling as if I have forgotten them. To all of my friends, and that includes many, many women who read and comment on this blog. It includes many, many men who visit and comment and who have lifted my spirits with compliments on what I do. It includes my family - without whom I would not be doing the work I do.
To all of you, I dedicate this poem:
"I Hear It Said" by Barbara Young
Last night my friend, he says he is my friend,
Came in and questioned me. "I hear it said
You have done this and that. I come to ask
Are these things true?" A glint was in his eye
Of small distrust. His words were crisp and hot.
He measured me with anger, and flung down
A little heap of facts had come to him.
"I hear it said you have done this and that."
Suppose I have? And are you not my friend?
And are you not my friend enough to say,
"If it were true, there would be reason in it?
And if I cannot know the how and why,
Still I can trust you, waiting for a word,
Or, for no word, if no word ever come!"
Is friendship just a thing of afternoons,
Of pleasuring one's friend and one's dear self --
Greed for sedate approval of his pace,
Suspicion if he take one little turn
Upon the road, one flight into the air,
And has not sought you for your Yea or Nay!
No. Friendship is not so. I am my own.
And howsoever near my friend my draw
Unto my soul, there is legend hung
Above a certain straight and narrow way
Says, "Dear my friend, ye may not enter here!"
I would the time has come -- as it has not --
When men shall rise and say, "He is my friend.
He has done this? And what is that to me!
Think you I have a check upon his head,
Or cast a guiding rein across his neck?
I am his friend. And for that cause I walk
Not overclose beside him, leaving still
Space for his silences, and space for mine."
You are my friends. I believe in you. Your still, small spaces belong to you. I will not intrude upon them, unless you invite me in.
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