However, over the last 10 years, I have slowly given up the whole coupon thing for the other shopping I do. Honestly, I don't have time. My time is worth more than their coupons. And, I don't shop for the sake of shopping. I shop when I need something. I have favorite stores - like JC Penney - and that's where I go. 

Don't get me wrong. I like a bargain as much as the next person. I watch TV and I see the ads. This store is promising 20% off this weekend only (well, until next weekend, when they'll change the focus of the ad but you'll still get a deal of some sort); this store says watch for the coupon in Wednesday's paper; another store says they're the low-cost provider, why would you shop anywhere else - and here's a coupon to prove it! Over time, I have come realize, it's all PR. That's all. Major PR. NO REAL SAVINGS! Because, in the end, how much is your time really worth? The women who are saving the most spend hours and hours on coupon clipping. Hours and hours. And hours. 

Faith Popcorn, who should know better, is advising JC Penney to do an about-face. She is quoted, in the Forbes article, here: "Popcorn says DeGeneres could play a key role. “I’d come back with a very strong apology campaign showing Ellen cutting coupons in secret, and making it very clear how important these pieces of paper are to their consumer base,” she says. “He needs to get on the same page as his consumers before he alienates them forever.” Rather than deprive them of something they value, she says Penney’s execs should focus on “surprising and delighting” their customers through the very promotions and gimmicks they hoped to do away with just three months ago."

Really? Honestly? I'm so angry I could spit. Women need to stop letting everyone else tell them how to do what they do best - take care of their own families. We don't need coupons. Coupons are a crutch. If, as Popcorn suggests, removing coupons is the equivalent of taking booze from an alcoholic, it's time to go cold turkey and give women back their lives. And, people like Popcorn need to help the issue, not hinder it. She could be a prime force, as Ellen DeGeneres is, in showing women that they don't need to bow to corporate policies that no longer work.

Women have other things to do with their time than cut coupons. If you think couponing is helping you, I ask you to stop for a month...and buy only those products you actually need. Buy stuff that your family needs, not what it 'wants'. Shop in stores that want your business because they have quality products - not because they have inferior products they're willing to sell cheap, via coupons.

Me - I'm done with coupons, unless it's "free-free-free" without having to buy a dozen other items first.

I have a budget. I stick to it. I know where to get the best products at the best prices, and JC Penney is one of the places I shop. If they go back to couponing, well... not so much.